5 Critical Steps to Follow Before Writing Your First Blog Post

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If you are reading today’s post, you’re probably one of many pondering whether or not starting a blog is a good idea for you. There are many reasons for starting a blog, but I won’t go into those details today. Today, I’m going to talk about 5 critical steps you need to do, and do right, before hitting publish on that first post. It’s tempting to get started right away, and you should, but bear these 5 tips in mind before sharing your content with the world.

5 Critical Steps to Follow Before Writing Your First Blog Post

1. Find your niche and stick with it

Before you start a blog, make sure you have identified a niche that will drive interest and traffic regularly. One mistake some bloggers make is they start writing their blog posts before they have done this step, and they end up writing about anything under the sun. I guess this is ok if you aren’t looking to build a solid audience. If you’re starting a casual blog where you write about whatever you want, that’s fine and dandy, but if you are like most bloggers, earning income and building traffic is critical. Here’s where identifying your niche immediately is important in driving traffic to your blog.

How do you find your niche?

Research other blogs. What makes them tick? How are they soliciting feedback? How are they drawing in readers? I’m definitely NOT saying plagiarize! Researching other blogs can give you good ideas on how you can structure your own blog’s content.

Write about what you know? Do you know a lot about cooking or education? Chances are, you’ll have a lot to say about something you are good at versus writing about cars if you know NOTHING about cars. Write about what you know. Write about your personal experiences. Find ways to make your content and expertise valuable to your readers. Remember, you are writing for your readers first…then yourself.

Do Google searches for topics and keywords that rank high. I know, I know, everyone says keyword research and SEO are both important in driving traffic. This is a true statement. Before you decide on your niche, do research on what other people are searching for in your niche, and cater your blog’s content to addressing those topics.

My rule of thumb: If you have to scratch your head day in and day out to find a suitable post topic, you’ve picked the wrong niche. I can think of tons of topics on blogging I can write about, and I feel like the sky’s the limit for new topics. Another piece of advice is don’t pick a niche that everyone and their mothers write about. If you do, you’ll just be posting into a flooded market. If you want to start a parenting blog, pick topics few parents write about. Make them unique, valuable, and even controversial (whether to or not to vaccinate a child is a great controversial topic, for example, if you are a parenting blogger). If you’re making someone’s skin boil just reading your post title, chances are, they’ll read your post (and probably comment too!)

2. Build a list of potential blog post titles/topics

Hey, when I first started my blog, I had no idea where to start writing. What I found very helpful was to start (and then add to) a list of potential titles and topics I want to write about in future blog posts. Since I regularly have writer’s blog, a list helps me to not have to dig up new titles every time I’m ready to write. The list is readily available for me and I can pick and choose from it to write my next masterpiece of a blog post. Since I write about blogging, I actually published a list of 100 blog post ideas. Every time I write a post from that list, I add the link to the list, which helps keep readers on my site longer. Pretty cool, huh?

3. Plan your blog’s design ahead of time

Ugh, this was a long and painful process for me. I already have OCD, so having to make sure every inch of my blog was perfectly designed really set my OCD into high gear….but….take my advice and plan ahead. I didn’t, the first few times, and it was a long process to get things where I wanted them.

Blog theme advice: I hope you are using WordPress because it is the best. WordPress can be customized to just about any blogger’s liking.  There are thousands of themes for just about any blog type imaginable. A great place to get a solid theme for your WordPress blog is ThemeIsle.

Keep the sidebar neat: Have you ever visited a blog where the entire sidebar was so cluttered you couldn’t find anything? Heck, it doesn’t have to be just blogs that have this problem, but any website for that matter. Keep your sidebar clean, and by clean I don’t mean blank. Put worthwhile information in the sidebar (short bio, social media follow links, blog subscribe button, popular posts, etc) and leave out non-essential information. I know it’s tempting to fill up the sidebar with every widget imaginable, but just remember that the more you add to the sidebar, the slower loading time your site will have. If you are curious as to how fast your site is running right now, WP Engine has a free speed test.

Make it unique: Make your blog’s design unique to you and your blog’s niche. Definitely don’t use the default theme! Just because the template is popular, doesn’t mean it’ll set you apart from other bloggers. Remember, your content is what’s driving readers to your site. So, don’t let them down when they get there. Give them a piece of who you are and what they are getting when they come visit your site. Make subscribing to your blog irresistible.

Your homepage should show your most recent blog posts. There are several ways to organize your homepage. You can either have a static page and direct your traffic to your blog using your site’s menu, or you can have your content be the first thing readers see when they come to your page. My suggestion is to put your content on display right away and to not make your readers hunt for it. Your great content is the reason they’re here, so why hide it? I make it a rule to always put my most recent content on the homepage – no matter what options my theme may give me. Keep in mind this may not be the best option if you run a business (and your blog is one piece of your entire website).

4. Choose the right title and domain name

Nothing was more difficult for me starting my blog than choosing my blog’s title and domain name.  Go Ask Your Daddy wasn’t the first title, nor was it my first niche. When I started blogging at the end of 2015, my blog’s title was The Buzzer Beater Blog. I had originally decided to start a sports blog, but quickly found I didn’t have enough to talk about on a regular basis. So, I changed to Go Ask Your Daddy. It fits because I’m a daddy of 4, it suggests I have the answer, and I liked it!

Domain names are cheap most of the time, but you’ll want to make sure you pick the right one the first time. The best domain names are the same as your blog’s title. Do searches on what’s available (at any web host’s site) before deciding on a title. You want to make sure the domain name you want is available before committing to a title. I highly recommend Namecheap.com for domain name purchase. You can register your domain for as little as $.88.

5. Join Blogging Groups

Oh, how I love all of my Facebook blogging groups!  I have learned so much about blogging and met so many fantastic bloggers. Just as with any profession, networking is key to gaining opportunities. The great thing about blogging groups is that they are full of like-minded bloggers looking to share content, boost traffic, meet others, and learn new techniques. I currently manage my own group, Blogger Share and Promo Group, but am a member in other groups, such as: Grow Your Blog, Bloggers for Bloggers, Bloggers Supporting Each Other, and Bloggers Finally Getting Noticed, among others.

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Not only do I love blogging, but I love helping people like you start a blog too. Although blogging is a ton of work, it can be fun, rewarding, and fulfilling. I have certainly learned tons about it in my short 2 years of blogging. I have tons more to learn, but that’s okay. Learning is how we improve in anything and blogging isn’t any different.

I’ve written many posts about how to start a blog. My favorite one is How to Start a Money Making Blog.  You can also subscribe to my free 7-day email course, “How to Create a Profitable Blog

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How I Made $125.69 With My Blog in September 2017 [Income Report]

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How I Made $125.69 With My Blog in September 2017 [Income Report]

I’ve been sharing my blog income reports for the last several months. While blogging has its up and downs just like any other business, over the long haul of the year, I’ve already earned nearly twice as much as I did in all of 2016. Still, earnings for September were down.

I wrote 8 new blog posts in September:

Income for September 2017

Fat Joe Publishing: $165.29

Total: $165.29

Expenses for September 2017

Siteground Web Hosting: $39.60

Total: $39.60

My top 5 viewed blog posts for September:

Site Stats

  • Total unique visitors: 1,213 (+139 from August)
  • Total page views: 2,007 (+288 from August)
  • Total comments: 12 (-15 from August)

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My Thoughts on Las Vegas

When I woke up to the news of the terrible massacre in Las Vegas yesterday morning, I thought about all of the innocent people that lost their lives because of an evil coward. How many men, women, boys and girls will never see another moment on this earth because of one man’s cowardly act? I can’t fathom the pain and suffering that’s happening because of this.

Naturally, the first place many people go is to question or challenge the existence of God. Wouldn’t God protect his own from danger or from suffering? It’s true God allows us to suffer. Sometimes we suffer for the greater good in our lives. Other times there is no apparent reason for suffering, but this doesn’t mean that there isn’t one. While we may think we know what’s best for us, God allows us to suffer so that he can reveal what he says is the best for us.

So, how do you comfort someone who lost a loved one in such a horrific manner? Many say there aren’t any words that will heal a wounded heart from such a loss. It’s true that nothing I could say to someone will totally heal them from such a tragedy. The one thing I can say is that we have to keep trusting God, even in the midst of suffering. God hasn’t left us, he hasn’t failed us, he hasn’t forsaken us. He is with us all the time. Jesus died on the cross for us not to save us from the suffering of this world, but to prevent us from losing eternal life. He never said that we would be without suffering while on earth.

So after the worst massacre in modern American history, I am heartbroken, I am speechless, and I am angry. I spent most of the day yesterday so mad at the murderer for taking so many innocent lives. I remain angry and upset today. I’m sure more debates about gun control will spawn from this incident. That’s ok. At least we are talking about it, raising awareness, and taking action to protect the lives of millions of people.  It’s a joint effort we must all take part in – regardless of our stance on gun control. In the end, no level of gun control can completely protect us, but we can take steps in the right direction to prevent very dangerous people from getting their hands on guns.

If you are a parent like I am, the most important piece of advice I can give you is to never take one single moment with your family for granted. Spend time with your spouse and your kids. Love every moment you have as if it were your last. The families involved in this shooting never got the chance to say goodbye. There are kids that said goodbye to their moms or dads before the concert and will never see them again. Life is short. Don’t miss out on every single wonderful opportunity with your loved ones.

Please join me in offering up prayers for the 50+ souls that were lost yesterday, and for the grieving families that must face rough roads ahead. Please also pray for law enforcement, our government, and those that work with the families involved in this tragedy. May God bring them peace, comfort and hope even in the midst of such a tragic event.  I ask our Blessed Mother to intercede for us and lift our prayers up to her Son.

Eternal rest grant unto them , O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon them. May the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace.



My First Trip to Rally House  – Dayton, Ohio

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As you can probably guess, I’m a huge sports fan. There aren’t very many places to buy quality sports gear here in the Dayton area unless you are willing to pay an arm and a leg for it. Dick’s Sporting Goods is one of the most expensive sporting goods stores on the market, and Walmart doesn’t usually have a good selection – or – the quality of the merchandise is crappy. I was in a bind, and needed a gift really quickly.

My oldest son turns 11 today (tears….) so I wanted to get him a new Cincinnati Bengals hoodie since we are going to the Bengals/Browns game Thanksgiving weekend. Late November in Cincinnati means cool temps and perfect football weather. What better gift to give my son that a hoodie he can wear with pride every day!

My son and I love to watch sports together – especially the Cincinnati Bengals. We spend just about every afternoon throwing the football outside when the weather is nice.  Last year, I got to take him to a free practice the Bengals were holding at a local high school. It was a great afternoon of watching our favorite Bengals players practice. Unfortunately, we weren’t able to get autographs because of the massive line waiting for the team to wrap up practice.

We’re going to our first regular season game on November 26th when the Bengals face the Browns in the Battle of Ohio. It’s going to be a great afternoon of football, fun, and fall weather!

Because we share our love of sports, I wanted to get him something he’d love. The first place I went was Target. Normally, Target has an ok selection of sports gear, but I was completely out of luck today. Although they had tons of University of Dayton gear, they had one Bengals shirt. I really found that annoying since college basketball hasn’t even started yet, and we are still at the beginning of the NFL season. So, I had a wasted trip in Target. I immediately left and went to Rally House just up the road.

I had never heard of Rally House before today, but as soon as I found their website, I found a lot of cool merchandise for local college and professional teams. The great thing about their website is that you can order online and pick up in store. I opted not to do that for my first purchase. As a sports fanatic, I just had to get in the car and make the 5 minute drive to their brick and mortar store (across from the Dayton Mall).

Rally House is a specialty sports store that offers an expansive selection of NCAA, NFL, MLB, NBA, NHL & MLS apparel, t-shirts, hats, jerseys, jackets, gifts, gear & more. At Rally House you’ll find unique college & pro merchandise for every fan.

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I love how Rally House has organized their merchandise. As soon as you walk in, you can quickly find the sport and the team you are looking for without having to walk around the whole store. The Bengals gear was in the front. Much like hardware stores, I have to really restrain myself in sports stores, or I’ll buy everything under the sun.

I found my son’s orange Bengals hoodie within a few minutes and within 5 minutes I had paid for it and was on my way home. My cool little 3 year old dude was with me to help!

If you are one to buy sports gear a lot, you’ll want to join Rally House Rewards to get access to promotions, special offers, ticket giveaways and more. I signed up before I went to the store and gave the clerk my email address. Before I even left the store, I had an email receipt waiting for me.

The one thing I was hoping for with my visit to Rally House was to find my favorite college team, the Georgia Bulldogs, but Georgia gear is very hard to find in stores here in Ohio because there’s not much of a market for the team’s gear. 99% of my gear I have to buy online or have my mom ship it to me from Georgia.

I also am very happy to have been accepted as an affiliate for Rally House today! Like I always promise, I only sign up for affiliate programs that provide a valuable product or service. In this case, you can’t go wrong with quality sports gear at affordable prices.  My first Rally House experience was awesome, and I’m sure I’ll be back for more over and over again.

Rally House has a great free shipping deal right now on orders $50 and over. It’s a great time to start gathering holiday gifts – and with free shipping – why not now?

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How to Use Google Cache to Restore a Permanently Deleted WordPress Blog Post

Hey guys!  I had a major freak out session today when I accidentally deleted a published blog post on WordPress, and then, in the process of trying to restore it, I accidentally hit the “permanently delete” button – not good!  If you ever wanted to meet a total klutz, I’m your guy!

How to Use Google Cache to Restore a Permanently Deleted WordPress Blog Post.

As I mentioned above, I was frantic!  I had just shared a 1,000 + word blog post to my blog, to Facebook, to Twitter, and to other sites. Now I was embarrassed because there was no page to direct them to any longer.

So, I did what anyone would probably do in that situation – checked Google for help. After scouring a few discussion boards, I discovered no real answer other than a method to restore posts that were sitting in the trash bin. My big problem was the post was no longer in the trash bin, nor was it in my database inside my WordPress SQL.

I finally found a discussion board talking about how to retrieve data from Google’s cache. I had no experience working with cache at any level – other than clearing it. But, I was desperate to save my 1,000+ word blog post I had just blasted to the world so I read the discussion.

Rather than go through a very complex, technical discussion of how cache works, I’ll skip to the cool part.  Google’s cache automatically stores pages in its memory allowing the content to be accessible as it was at the time it was cached (a snapshot, essentially). The cool part is that this data is accessible! All you have to do to get to the content (assuming you haven’t cleared your cache since you published the post) is type in:

Site:sitename.com: post title

Once you enter in the above information, and the post is still in cache, it’ll pull up the snapshot of the page as it appeared when it was cached.

How to Use Google Cache to Restore a Permanently Deleted WordPress Blog Post.

This was a beautiful thing! As soon as I saw my missing content all intact on the screen, I shouted for extreme joy. I was able to copy and paste my content back in to WordPress, use the same URL, and publish it again (as if it never happened!)

This was a true time-saving trick for me so I couldn’t help but share it all with you! The idea of losing a 1,000 word post I had worked on all week was really disappointing. Now, I can move on as if it never happened.

This near-disaster taught me one thing. Always save a backup outside of WordPress. Make it a habit of saving posts in Microsoft Word and then transfer them to WordPress. There are also WordPress plugins such as the one I use, BackUpWordpress.

Keep in mind that the above trick won’t work if you’ve cleared your cache since you posted the blog post. So, the best course of action is to always back up to Word and use a backup plugin. Also, if your post is old, chances are it has purged from your cache. There is a website called Way Back Machine that can dig to find your old post if you run into this issue. There is no guarantee that the post will be found.

I learned a valuable lesson today from this experience, but am glad I was able to find a solution and fix my problem. I hope this helps you if you ever run across this scenario.